It’s not your To-Do list. We’re exactly 30 days away from the midpoint of 2025, and as time continues its relentless march, I must confess that I sometimes struggle to keep up with it. I’m actively working on improving this. My last newsletter (or “therapy notes”, as I like to call them) was published about …
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Stop Planning, Start Doing: The Art of Taking Imperfect Action
I have many ideas, far more than I can possibly process at a time. However, most of these ideas never see the light of day. I fail to realize these ideas, not because they are bad, but often as a consequence of inaction. When it comes to idea execution, people typically fall into two categories: …
My Watch Later List is Out of Control (And Yours Probably Is Too)
A few days ago, I logged into YouTube on my browser, and almost all the recommended videos on the homepage seemed worthy of the “Watch later” playlist. The problem, however, is that I rarely return to the “Watch later” videos. The algorithm provides fresh, engaging content the moment the page is refreshed. Content is abundant …
Question Everything.
Lately, amidst the throes of adulthood and its shenanigans, I’ve been doing quite a bit of soul-searching, especially regarding my career choices thus far and the motives behind them. It has been an interesting experience. And as I gain greater clarity on the issue at hand, a significant observation emerges: many of my decisions were …
There Are No Shortcuts To Success
Just do the work. It’s that simple. My vision board for 2025 hangs directly above my desk. This placement is intentional. I spend a significant amount of time at my desk, and while I’m there, my eyes often wander in search of inspiration or solutions to the challenges I’m facing. In these moments, I catch …
It’s Okay To Be A Beginner At Something
My first attempt at content creation was back in 2019. I had just taken up videography and suddenly became obsessed. My favourite YouTubers at the time were seasoned videographers, and I spent countless hours on YouTube channels that taught the craft. I was hooked on my newfound passion and itched to apply my enthusiasm to …
Give Your Parents Their Flowers While You Still Can
My dad turned 60 over the weekend. My dad is my hero and role model. Among the countless things I admire about him, one that constantly leaves me in awe is his willingness to make sacrifices for others, sometimes even at the expense of his own comfort. Growing up, I watched him positively impact several …
“Once Bitten, Twice Shy”, And Other LIEs That Limit Us
By default, I tend to play it safe, and it often requires a significant dose of conviction for me to even play at all. Whenever I get an idea, the euphoria accompanying it is usually short-lived, quickly giving way to a thorough analysis of every conceivable pro and con related to that idea. I analyze, …
What is Your Story?
I am a big fan of deep, meaningful conversations. My favourite discussions are those that transcend superficial chit-chat and engage deeper issues—the kind that leave you with lingering thoughts for days. They are always a delight. Unfortunately, in this era of instant messaging and increasingly shallow dialogue, we are gradually losing this invaluable tool that …
The Joy of True Friendships—And The Pain of Losing Them.
“20 children cannot play together for 20 years” – Yoruba Proverb. Take a trip down memory lane to your childhood days. You’re in the playground, surrounded by other children from the neighbourhood with whom you’ve become familiar and share a special bond formed through frequent interactions right there on that playground. Every evening, as if …