A few days ago, I logged into YouTube on my browser, and almost all the recommended videos on the homepage seemed worthy of the “Watch later” playlist. The problem, however, is that I rarely return to the “Watch later” videos. The algorithm provides fresh, engaging content the moment the page is refreshed. Content is abundant …
Category: Life
Question Everything.
Lately, amidst the throes of adulthood and its shenanigans, I’ve been doing quite a bit of soul-searching, especially regarding my career choices thus far and the motives behind them. It has been an interesting experience. And as I gain greater clarity on the issue at hand, a significant observation emerges: many of my decisions were …
Give Your Parents Their Flowers While You Still Can
My dad turned 60 over the weekend. My dad is my hero and role model. Among the countless things I admire about him, one that constantly leaves me in awe is his willingness to make sacrifices for others, sometimes even at the expense of his own comfort. Growing up, I watched him positively impact several …
“Once Bitten, Twice Shy”, And Other LIEs That Limit Us
By default, I tend to play it safe, and it often requires a significant dose of conviction for me to even play at all. Whenever I get an idea, the euphoria accompanying it is usually short-lived, quickly giving way to a thorough analysis of every conceivable pro and con related to that idea. I analyze, …
What is Your Story?
I am a big fan of deep, meaningful conversations. My favourite discussions are those that transcend superficial chit-chat and engage deeper issues—the kind that leave you with lingering thoughts for days. They are always a delight. Unfortunately, in this era of instant messaging and increasingly shallow dialogue, we are gradually losing this invaluable tool that …
The Joy of True Friendships—And The Pain of Losing Them.
“20 children cannot play together for 20 years” – Yoruba Proverb. Take a trip down memory lane to your childhood days. You’re in the playground, surrounded by other children from the neighbourhood with whom you’ve become familiar and share a special bond formed through frequent interactions right there on that playground. Every evening, as if …
Mid-20s Musings: Embrace Your Unique Journey
I turned 26 in January, which means I am closer to 30 than I am to 20. As a bonafide 20-something, I am well acquainted with this decade and have garnered quite some experience, both good and bad. I have also learnt a thing or two along the way, and this post is dedicated to …
My Failed Attempt At Therapy – Willing To Try Again
Life is a journey, and we are all captains of our own ships, striving to sail safely across the infinite expanse of time. Every now and then, our vessels become inundated with the mundanities of life. In our quest to navigate the often turbulent waters of this earthly journey, we sometimes embrace the humdrum and, …
4 Signs You Have A Fixed Mindset, And Why You Need To Change It
Your mindset controls your life. The results in your life, or the lack thereof, directly reflect your mind. Your thoughts become your actions, your actions become your habits, and your habits shape your life. “As a man thinks, so is he”. Working in the creative space, results are very tangible, and a person’s creativity can …
Finding The “Storyworthy” Moments In Everyday Life
A couple months ago, I picked up “Storyworthy” by Matthew Dicks for two reasons: One, Ali Abdaal recommended it. I personally think he has some of the best book recommendations, and I’ve got a good number of his recommended books on my reading list. Secondly (and why it made it out of my ever-extending reading …